Personal Posts

Posts, mostly older, that are about me or express my views on a variety of topics that are of interest to me personally. They have nothing to do with our apartment in Carcassonne.

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    Fathers… natural, step and grand

    I last saw my father in 1950, when I was six. Over the last couple of years I have found out that he lived most of his life since then in southern Ontario and that I have six half-siblings, some of whom I have now had the pleasure of meeting. Also in 1950 my grandfather — my mother’s father — died in Plymouth, England, where our family home was. We had not seen him in three years, not since my parents had taken me to Canada, where they were serving in Pembroke, Ontario, as Salvation Army officers at the time of his death. My father had been away at war, and then went back to…

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    My Scariest Road Trip

    My scariest road trip was late in the afternoon of Easter Saturday in April, 1999. Roland Sewell and I had just been up to the Albanian border to bring relief to the flood of incoming Kosovar refugees. Roland remained there distributing bread, sausages and essentials, while I returned to Kukes in the truck, carrying a refugee family in the back as well as the remnants of the food and supplies which we were going to bring to refugees who had already reached the relative safety of Kukes. I’m trying to record a commentary on what we are doing while I’m scared out of my mind. The driver and his mate weren’t…

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    Thoughts While Preparing the Turkey

    Christmas 1948 The first Christmas I remember was in 1948, when my mother and I were living in Toronto. Mother, who had been a Salvation Army officer in England before she met and married my father, was in charge of the Bedford Park Salvation Army Corps, just off Yonge Street on Glenforest Road in North Toronto. My father was in the Salvation Army Training College for Officers. Although he wasn’t far away, we didn’t get to see much of him because training was a year-long, full-time, live-in commitment. We lived at the back of The Salvation Army hall, long since demolished to make way for housing. There was an entrance…

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    This Spectr’d Isle

    My mother has been to see me only a couple of times since she died The last time she visited she came with my grandmother, who died in 1954. Now I ought to make it clear that on both these occasions I was quite poorly. Mother came once in early 2000, when I was very sick with complications after heart surgery, and then again a year ago, when I was running a high fever and hospitalized with H1N1 (Swine Flu). Both times she simply stood in the open doorway of my bedroom — last year, with my gran beside her. The first time I saw her she was not smiling,…

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    My year as a child soldier

    ARMY cadets in Plymouth have been banned from carrying rifles in public just days before they were due to take part in a Remembrance festival. (The Herald) Yes, I did carry a rifle before I was eighteen years of age — for a year. Along with my fellow members of the Air Training Corps (ATC) I also learned how to assemble a Bren gun and recognize enemy aircraft from their silhouettes (Second World War Focke-Wulfs and Messerschmitts from our new allies the Germans, because those were the only flash cards available).